Readings: Deut. 34:1-12; Ps.66; Matt. 18:15-20
Rev.
Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.
STEPS
TO FRATERNAL CORRECTION AND RECONCILATION
As
human, we are not perfect because of our contingent nature, so we are likely to
offend one another in any relationship we find ourselves. As a result of this,
one of the major challenges we face in most relationship today is the ability
to properly correct one another especially when one is straying from the norms
set up for the good of the relationship.
In our
Gospel passage today Jesus gave us the practical steps we need to follow in
order to correct and reconcile with one another so as to build a stronger
relationship when he said, ‘If your brother does something wrong, go and tell
him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won
back your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with
you: the evidence of two or three witnesses is required to sustain any charge.
But if he refuses to listen to these, report it to the Church as a community;
and if he refuses to listen to the Church, treat him like a pagan or a tax
collector.
Here,
Jesus calls for fraternal correction in any relationship we find ourselves, for
we are responsible for one another and these steps and stages give room for
reconciliation. This fraternal correction must always be inspired by real
charity which is one of the spiritual works of mercy. Though, this is never an
easy task especially when one has to bear the sacrifice of forgiveness, because
forgiving a very grievous offense is one of the most difficult things to do.
However,
forgiven a grievous offense is like recovery a lost treasure that contains:
joy, peace, freedom, healthy mind and healing. But how often do we seek to
recover this lost treasure in our lives caused by unforgivingness? Hence Jesus
today calls us to persistently seek for reconciliation until we gain our brothers
and sisters back whenever they have offended us.
And if
they refused to be reconciled we should pray for their conversion for that is
how Jesus taught us to treat the pagans, the task collectors and sinners. For
in all our proceedings we should seek direction in prayer, knowing that God
manifests his mercy when he transforms people and lead them to conversion, as
he changes us and turns us from selfish and rebellious individuals into humble
and loving persons.
This
is the case with the people of Israel in our first reading today, who were rebellious,
but God through Moses correct them. Though, he did not make it to the promised
Land but he was hourned by God before the people, for we were told that never has there been such a prophet in
Israel as Moses, the man the Lord knew face to face.
Dear
friends, today Jesus gave us the steps for fraternal correction and reconciliation.
For it is our duty, obligation and responsibility to ensure in a fraternal
charity that our fellow brothers and sisters, friends and neighbours,
colleagues and collaborators are corrected and guided whenever they go astray.
For each and every one of us have the responsibility to strengthen our
relationship and be a good examples for one another as we work the path towards
our salvation,
LET US
PRAY: Lord God, we are rebellious and proud people, we lack the courage and
disposition to accept corrections, help us to correct one another in fraternal
charity as we also learn to accept corrections when corrected. We ask this
through Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have a favourable day.
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