Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia
DEALING
WITH HUMAN PRIDE AND EGO
Beginning
from the time of Adam and Eve in the Gardens of Eden, Devil has been tempting
mankind with the capital sin of pride and ego, knowing how vulnerable and weak
we can be in resisting our desires for knowledge and power. These are
temptations for every age, however, it is more obvious in our society today, as
we all want and like red carpet treatment. We all enjoy wearing a well tailored
clothes and be addressed by honorific titles in different occasions and events
even in the Church.
These
of course can be done innocently without any harm depending on how they affect
our relationships with God and our neighbours. When it is done out of pride and
ego then, it becomes harmful to others and this can lead to idolatry, where man
will seek to be like God or assume the honor and glory due to God.
This
ugly attitude is what Jesus is addressing in our Gospel passage today, when he
said “Beware of the scribes who like to walk about in long robes, to be greeted
obsequiously in the market squares, to take the front seats in the synagogues
and the places of honour at banquets; these are the men who swallow the
property of widows, while making a show of lengthy prayers. The more severe
will be the sentence they receive”.
Here,
Jesus points to men entrusted with religious leadership who have turned their
positions of trust into selfish interest as they focus on what they can get,
rather than what they can give. So Jesus warning his disciples against such
kind of behaviour, especially how they exercised and practiced their faith.
The
Pharisees and the teachers of the Law often prided themselves in their
privileged and highly respected position in the community, and showed off their
faith, seeking important and privileged positions. What Jesus is telling us all
is to be careful and vigilant against the temptations of ego and pride in our
lives. We must focus our attention on God and put Him first and foremost in all
we do.
Dear
friends, the warning of Jesus concerning our pride and ego is not only for
religious leaders and ministers, but for everyone of us: fathers, mothers,
teachers, lecturers, government officials, military leaders, businessmen and
women, celebrities, doctors, mechanics and leaders of all works of life.
We are
to be on the watch in order to avoid being carried away by the titles of honour
and dignity that comes with the pride of life, like some of the scribes in our
Gospel passage today. Rather, we should humble ourselves in the midst of
external respect and honour, for noble souls despise these kind of honour, as
they offer it to God, to whom all respect and honour belongs.
Therefore,
let us learn an act of humility by ensuring that we give all honour and glory to God just as Tobit and Tobias
were advice by archangel Raphael as we heard him in our first reading saying
‘Bless God, utter his praise before all the living for all the favours he has
given you. Bless and extol his name. Proclaim before all men the deeds of God
as they deserve, and never tire of giving him thanks.
LET US
PRAY: Lord God, as you warn us today to beware of the pride and ego of the
human life, grant us the grace of humility in the midst of all prideful events
in our lives, through Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have a grace-filled weekend.
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