
Readings: Gen 3:1-8, Ps.32, Mark 7:31-37
Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.
WHY DO WE CELEBRATE VALENTINE’S DAY?
Today all over the world, people are celebrating, especially young people; we are celebrating what they call Valentine’s Day. A day we celebrate love. But today, we are celebrating not just love but the power and victory of love over human selfishness. The seed of this celebration comes as a result of the ugly event that happened on February 14, around the year 270 A.D., when Valentine, a holy Roman Catholic priest, who lived in Rome in the days of Emperor Claudius II, was executed.
But the questions that come to mind are: why was he executed, and how does this ugly event relate to what we are celebrating today? According to history, what happened was that under the rule of Emperor Claudius II, Rome was involved in many unpopular and bloody campaigns, and the emperor had to maintain a strong army but was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. So, the emperor discovered that the men of Rome were unwilling to join the army because of their strong attachment to their wives and families.
Thus, to deal with this problem, Claudius banned all marriages and engagements in Rome. But Valentine a priest of Rome, realizing the injustice of this declaration by the emperor, defied this order and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine’s actions were discovered, the emperor ordered that he be put to death. Valentine was arrested and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. This ugly event was carried out on February 14, around the year 270.
However, in 496 A.D., Pope Gelasius, in honour of this St., decided to put an end to the Feast of Lupercalia, which was a pagan celebration of the god of fertility in the name of love, though in an immoral way that is not acceptable to the Christian faith. So in order to replace this feast with something more acceptable, the Pope declared that February 14 be celebrated as St. Valentine's Day in memory of his sacrificial passion for love among the people. Gradually, February 14 became a date for the celebration of love, which is often expressed in different ways, such as exchanging love messages, poems and simple gifts such as flowers to our loved ones.
Thus, Valentine's celebration reminds us of the gift of God's love to humanity. For God loves unconditionally and sacrificially, he loves us till the very end. So, we have to also love one another the way God loves us. We must know that Valentine's Day is not a carnal celebration of love. But more of a sacrificial and spiritual celebration. That is why, as Christians, we do not celebrate Valentine's in a carnal or selfish manner or the sinful way the world celebrates it in the name of boyfriend and girlfriend, committing immorality, fornication and adultery in the name of love, which, of course, is not love, but lust.
Therefore, Valentine’s day for us should be a day we protect and promote true love for one another. It is a day we remember how much we care for one another and what we are to one another. It is a day we build up and nurture long-lasting love, friendships and good relationships with one another.
This is what was lacking in our lives because we have failed to listen to the word of God. Yes, we go to Church as often as possible; we engage in one spiritual activity or another. But the question is, do we really listen and hear God speaking to us through those activities? Do we still see the hands of God in what we do? Are we really convinced of what we do in the house of God? Are we confused about our faith as a result of ugly events and scandals? The world really wants us to be deaf to the word of God and mute to speak the great things God is doing for us.
This is evident in our first reading today, where humanity paid deaf hears to the instructions of God by allowing herself to be deceived by the serpent and, as a result of this ugly attitude, separate herself from the presence of God out of pride and selfish desires for deceptive things of this passing world.
Thus, today in our Gospel passage, we hear how Jesus dramatically and figuratively heals us of our deafness and dumbass caused by our constant embracing of the sinful things of this passing world. Hence, when the deaf and dumb man was brought to Jesus for healing. He took the man aside, put his fingers in his ears, touched his tongue with spittle, looked up to heaven and prayed, " Ephphatha! Be opened". Immediately, the man’s ears were opened, his tongue loosed, and he was able to speak plainly. These same words are used during baptism while touching the ears and lips of the baptized, a gesture that signifies the spiritual openness of one’s heart to God’s words.
Dear friends, out of pride and greediness, we have often separated ourselves from the presence of God and, as a result, have become deaf and dumb to his teachings and instructions. Hence, we all need to have our ears opened so that we can hear and understand fully the message of Jesus and share it with the world. I don’t know how far we have separated ourselves from God as a result of sin, I don’t know how deep our deafness and dumbness are, all I know is that today God is saying to us, fear not, have the courage for the eyes of the blind shall be opened, ears of the deaf unstopped and the tongue of the mute shall sing for joy.
So, let us learn to embrace true love for that is the only way we can conquer the ugly attitude of pride in us. Let us learn from SS. Cyril and Methodius and also St. Valentine whose memorials we celebrate today. For they are good examples of what it means to hear the word of God calling us to embrace love sacrificially.
LET US PRAY: Lord Jesus, we have become deaf and dumb towards your words as we embrace your word today, calling us to embrace love sacrificially. Through the intercessions of SS. Cyril, Methodius and Valentine give us the grace to be humble and to love in order to follow you, our Lord and Saviour, who lives and reigns forever and ever. Amen. Love you all.