Rev.
Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.
LEARN
TO ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE, THEN WORK HARD TO ACHIEVE WHO YOU DESIRE TO BE
In our
society today, most people hardly accept who they are. These days people spend all their resources and energy trying to convince others of what they are
not by seeking their approval. What happens is that, in the end, they will lose
their nerves and other people will convince them that what they are doing
doesn't have any value and because of that they give up their dreams. This is
not the same with the Syrophoenician woman in our Gospel passage today, who
when approached Jesus pleading for the restoration of her daughter did not give
up even when her request was not granted immediately.
For we
are told that Jesus entered a house in Tyre and Sidon and did not want to be
recognized. It is then that this Gentile Syrophoenician woman came to him and prostrated herself
before Jesus and begged him to exorcise the evil spirit in her daughter. But
Jesus’ answer seems somewhat strange when he said: “Let the children be fed first. For it is not
right to take the food of the children and throw it to the dogs.” However, the woman responded, “Lord, even the
dogs under the table eat the children’s scraps. Her humble and powerful faith was immediately rewarded and her daughter was healed.
This
story portrays the anticipation of the future faith of the Gentiles who will
later become Christians. However, the irony of this passage is that, in Israel, Jesus was trying to convince people that he was the Messiah, as he was being
challenged to prove it with a sign. But here in Gentile territory, he met a
woman who was convinced he was the Messiah and he could not discourage her
efforts. Nonetheless, his apparent attempt to put her off was just a test, of
which her great faith was proven by accepting her humble background and persistence in her request.
She
accepted the place of a “dog” as a Gentile in relation to Israelites being the
chosen children of God to whom the message and grace of the Messiah came first.
Though she accepted that she may not be able to sit down at the Messiah’s table
and eat with the “children,” she should be allowed to pick up some of the
crumbs of unmerited mercy and grace of God for the sake of her daughter.
Dear
friends, we must learn how to humbly
accept who are and be more persistent in our quest and desire for something. We
must stop wasting valuable time trying to prove who we are not, let us first
accept who we are in faith, then, work hard to improve who we want to be in
relation to our faith in God. Let our faith in God help us to accept who we
are. Whatever we want to do, let us have faith in God and ourselves, and be
determined because, faith, determination and sacrifice are the secrets of any
success in life.
Therefore,
tell yourself today that you can get that which you desire, when you plan for
it, and work every day for it, then you will begin to see a different face in the
things you do. The truth is that people are rewarded in public for things they have done for years in private. So, let us learn from this Syrophoenician woman who
accepted who she was and was determined with faith to achieve her dream through
humility and persistence. Let us not be like King Solomon in our first reading
who failed to remain faithful to God in his old age.
In the
light, the Church today calls our attention to some ugly activities of human
trafficking. This is important as we celebrate the memorial of St. Josephine
Bakhita. She was a former slave from Sudan who was a victim of human
trafficking. As a child, she had already suffered much, being captured by slavers and
treated horribly as a slave passing on from master to master.
Bakhita
had the fortunate chance to escape slavery through her former master, who was
touched and converted by her virtuous life. So she eventually found her way to
freedom and later joined the religious community in which she spent the rest of
her life. So today, we are called to pray for victims of human trafficking and
we should never engage ourselves in such ugly activities.
LET US
PRAY: Lord God, the Syrophoenician woman accepted her humble background with
great faith in your Son Jesus, as we humbly make a leap of faith today, with
determination and sacrifice towards our dreams in life, may you grant our
hearts desires through the intercession of St. Bakhita. We ask this through
Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have a blessed day.