MARRIAGE A DAILY DISCOVERING OF GOD WHO IS LOVE

Today is a very special day for Oluwatomi (God is enough for me to rely on) David and Desayo (I was born into joy), it is a special day for the two families and friends of the couples. And also today is a special day for the Church, why? Because today two special children of the Holy Mother Church have come to express before her the love they have discovered in God who is love. 

But I have two questions for two of you today, and my first question is what is love? The second question is have you truly discovered love?

I know you will tell me that love is a strong feeling, a strong passion or a strong attraction for someone or something.  In fact, the dictionary defines love as a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. A deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction.

But this definition does not give us the true meaning of love, because love is beyond feelings, affections, emotion, attraction or sexual desire. You want to know what love is? I will let you know what love really means. Love I will tell you is that very nature of God that we share. That is why when someone is in love or when someone discovers love, is something deep and deeper than the human nature because it is the nature of God that we share. And St John tells us that God is love, and he who abides in love, abides God and God in him. 

And he said in 1 cor. 13:4-8 that Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, Love never fails. So, back to my second question, Oluwatomi and Desayo have you discovered love or I will say have you discovered God in each other? Because Marriage simple mean discovering God in your spouse. 

Little wonder, Pope Francis while addressing couples present in St. Peter's Square for his May 27 general audience in 2015 said that: Marriage is a vocation from God, is not just a relationship based on attraction and feelings, of a moment, of something short. It requires a journey which establishes a very strong and lasting partnership, which makes two lives one, a true miracle of human freedom and the grace of God. At the end of his address he said something very important. He said that, Love requires work not just attraction or feelings that comes and goes.

Hence, can. 1055, defines marriage as a covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of their whole life, and which of it’s own nature is ordered to the well-being of the spouses and to the procreation and upbringing of children, has, between the baptised , been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament.

My dear brother and sister, marriage is like building a house, you must ensure that you erect the structure of your marriage in a solid foundation of love well rooted in God. It is a daily struggle towards discovering God. In this struggles you need to know that both of you have a special role to play. Oluwatomi, you are the man of the house, men affirms and protect their home just like St Joseph. 

Desayo, you are a woman, women stirs the whole family with joy just like our Mother Mary and that is why there is a special prayer said for the woman in the nuptials blessings which  says: May the grace of love and peace abide in your daughter and let her always follow the example of those holy women whose praises are sung in the Scriptures. May her husband entrust his heart to her, so that, acknowledging her as his equal and his joint heir to the life of grace, he may show her due honor and cherish her always with the love that Christ has for his Church.

Oluwatomi, Desayo, God loves you, the church loves you, your families love you, all of us present at this holy Celebrating of the Mass love you. Abide in God’s love. 

Homily For Saturday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 8th January, 2022

 Homily For Saturday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 8th January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 5:14-21, Ps.149, John 3:22-30

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

WHAT IS YOUR ROLE IN THE MISSION OF CHRIST?

As Christians, one of the mandate that Jesus gave to us is to proclaim the Good News of our salvation, for in this mandate everyone of us has a special role to play. But the question is what is our role in the mission of Christ and how are we playing this role? Today’s Gospel passage presents to us the humility in which John the Baptist plays his role in the mission of Christ.  John knew who he was in the sight of God. He knew his strengths and his weaknesses, he knew that his life was centered on Christ. 

This was not a burden for him, for he clearly understood God’s sovereignty, he understood who Jesus is. He rejoiced in the coming of Jesus and his role in the mission and life of Jesus. He knew he was the announcer of Good News, but not the Good News itself. However, he did not have to make a public show of himself. He was not out to promote his own ministry or reputation. Even though it seems as if he is becoming insignificance when Jesus arrived, he did not feel so. His aim was to identify Jesus to the people which he did with all humility as we heard him say “he must increase, but I must decrease”.

Thus, John shows us what it means to be a true disciple of the Lord. That as disciples, we should not allow pride, ambition, ego and selfish desire to dictate how we live our lives. If not, we will easily be carried away by worldly temptations and lose our way by falling deep into the trap of sin. Rather, we are called to be humble and to be faithful to God at all times. Hence, St. John in our first reading today, tells us to struggle to free ourselves from sin and reject the path of sin, so that we will not end up being trapped more and more in the path of sin, for this may make us end up in eternal damnation if we are not careful.

          

Dear friends, we all have a significant role to play in the plan of God, John understood his role in the mission of Christ and showed great humility in exercising it. But do we have any clue of what our role is in the mission of Christ? In what ways do we exemplify humility in the little task entrusted to us? Let us learn from John the Baptist how to humbly exercise our role in any task or mission entrusted to us. 

LET US PRAY: Lord God, John the Baptist humbly remarked that it was only right that while his Lord and Master increased in importance and prominence, that he should decrease, thereby showing and teaching us what it means to be humble servants and disciples. As we contemplate his life, may we learn to be humble in carrying out the mission and vocation entrusted to us. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have a peaceful weekend.

Homily For Friday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 7th January, 2022

 Homily For Friday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 7th January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 5:5-13, Ps.147, Luke 5:12-16

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

THE LORD IS WILLING AND ABLE TO HEAL AND MAKE US CLEAN IF WE COME TO HIM

With the ugly situation in our lives, our families, societies and the world at large, there is no doubt that we all are sick and in need of God’s healing touch. Thus, our Gospel passage today, presents to us the story of a leper who approached Jesus for healing. He made this request with faith and trust in the power of Jesus. He said: “Lord, if you wish, you can make me clean.” Probably, he may had heard stories of Jesus' many healings. So in response, Jesus immediately touched him saying: “I will, be clean.” The man was healed immediately. 

This can be symbolic in relation to what God has done for humanity. For while we were still in the state of sin, corruption and in deep darkness as a result of the evil activities in this world. The Lord has not abandoned us, rather he always reached out to us and touched us by his generous love and often have mercy on us for our sins, which had separated us from God just as the leper had been separated and cast out from the society.

Here also, the touching of Jesus is very significant. No ordinary person would dare to touch a leper. Think of the inner healing that must have resulted from the touch of Jesus, that moment of physical contact. Touch is something we all need but are so often lacking in our relationship with God and one another. Thus, we too, are in need of healing, including the healing that comes from the touch of Jesus. 

And the truth is that, we all have received this amazing loving touch of God, his mercy, compassion, forgiveness and healing. This is what St. John in our first reading today is reminding us, when he spoke about overcoming the challenges of this world by believing in Jesus, who through the testimonies of water, Spirit and Blood bears witness to the love of God.

Dear friends, I don’t know what type of leprocious problems you are passing through, I don’t know how severe or hopeless your condition is. All I know is that Jesus is will to help us if we come to him in faith. So, let us put our trust in the healing power of Jesus. For the story of this leper is a good example of how we sinners can and should appeal to Jesus for cleansing especially from our sins. We should come in faith knowing that God is able to cleanse us, because he is always willing to cleanse every sinner who comes to him. 

LET US PRAY: Lord God,  we come to you today just like the man in our Gospel passage, you know our inner most being, so we ask that if you will, you can cleanse us, our families, our societies and the world from physical, emotional sinful, greed, unforgiveness and spiritual leprosies. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.  Do have a blessed day.

Homily For Thursday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 6th January, 2022

 Homily For Thursday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 6th January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 4:19-5:4, Ps.72, Luke 4:14-22

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

LORD HELP US TO EMBRACE YOUR GIFT OF LOVE AND LEARN TO SHARE IT WITH ONE ANOTHER

For the past few days now, we have been hearing about love from the first letter of St John. John is one of the inner circle of the disciples of our Lord Jesus Christ. He is know as the beloved disciple of Jesus as his character and personality portrays this and all his teachings are centered on love. Thus, our first reading today, centers on the summary of God’s commandments, that is, the love of God and the love of neighbour.  

Here, John was just very practical because, anyone who loves God will naturally love all God’s children who are, of course, in a very real sense our neighbours. We must love every single person because we are all created in the image and likeness of God. It is not possible to separate the love of God from the love of neighbour, for it is one commandment with two parts which will be the criterion for the final judgement of God.

John tells us that these commandments are not burdensome. Not because they are always easy to carry out fully but because we live in the strength of the Holy Spirit and also, because they are in total conformity with our nature made in the likeness of God, there is nothing artificial or arbitrary about them. To observe them is to become more and more what we are meant to be that is, living in that image of our Creator which we share with him. This is the teaching and mission of Jesus Christ as we have it in our Gospel passage today, where we heard Jesus proclaimed his mission and goals as the fulfilment of all the wonderful promises of God’s salvation for humanity.

Dear friends, our Lord Jesus has taught and revealed to us what it means for us to love. He often reached out to us, even to the worst and the most wicked sinners. He always touch us with his love and also calls us to follow his example. But are we willing and able to commit ourselves to follow his example. I don’t know if you have ever loved someone and you show it, or someone loves you and shows it? The truth is that, it actually feels right and awesome, because love bring healing and wholeness into people’s lives. Thus, it is by loving God in our neighbours that we can share and experience this nature of God in us and by so doing we will conquer the world full of hatred, self-centeredness, greed and sin. 

LET US PRAY: Heavenly Father, love is your gift to humanity, help us to embrace this gift of love and learn to share it with one another, just as Jesus has taught us who lives and reigns forever and ever. Amen. Do have a lovely day.

Homily Wednesday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 5th January, 2022

 Homily Wednesday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 5th January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 4:11-18, Ps.72,  Mark 6:45-52

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

DO NOT BE AFRAID TO FACE THE STORMS OF THIS PASSING WORLD FOR THE LORD ABIDES WITH US 

Yesterday was my first time of sailing through the sea on a boat for forty minutes with a group of priests, it was really fun, we were all putting on our life jackets with all the safety measures and cation. But I must confess that it was not too pleasant when we have to navigate through the wave of the sea.  Then I realized  what it means to be on the sea with heavy storms. A condition where the need to look for a Saviour is highly expected. 

Such was the case with the disciples of Jesus in the Gospel passage today. It is a story about panic, for after the miracle of the multiplication of loaves Jesus asked his disciples to get into the boat and sail to others side while he went to pray. With the waves breaking over the boat, the disciples cannot believe that the Lord has seen them, and is approaching. Hence, they were afraid and needed help from anywhere. It was at this point that they saw Jesus walking on the sea and he said to them: “take courage, it is I, do not be afraid”. 

This story signifies God's chosen people on a transit of faith, frightened by the guilt of sin and wounded by the waves of the sea, the abode of evil forces and monsters of this world. The boat can be taken as a symbol of the young Christian Church struggling with the world’s principalities and powers, while the storm is a symbol of persecution suffered by this young Christian community. However, John in our first reading tells us that God abides in us and his love is perfected in us, for there is no fear in love but perfect love casts out fear. Thus, Jesus says: "Do not be afraid" as we struggle with the storms of this passing world for he abides with us.

Dear friends, today  Jesus is calling us to journey on his boat of life with an unwavering faith and a repented heart because, the world is being tossed around by the waves of the evil forces, the enemies of humankind. And it is only  God who can subdue it, for he has promised to restore us back to himself. 

Therefore, I don't know the great storms of doubt and fear in your soul, as a result of the power of the evil forces of this world? All I know is that with great faith in God, the words of Jesus: “take courage, it is I,” will surely resound in the hearts of all of us, especially those  victims around us and all Christians who live in a hostile community.

Homily For Tuesday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 4th January, 2022

 Homily For Tuesday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 4th January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 4:7-10, Ps.72, Mark 6:34-44

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

GOD’S COMPASSIONATE LOVE FOR HUMANITY’S UGLY SITUATION

One of the common words we use to express our feelings is the word “love” and this word means a lot of things to different people. But what is love? For me, love is God’s nature which he shares with us. That is why love is beyond human nature. When we love, we are actually acting out that very nature of God in us. For love is greater than human nature because it is the nature of God that we share. 

Therefore, to understand the depth of God's love for us there is a principle that we need to abide with, that is, the principle that says that everyday is a gift from God to us. A gift that shows how much He loves us by sending His Son whose life giving sacrifice means salvation for all humanity. But the world prefers darkness to light, death to life and these have made the world a difficult place to live in. 

Today in our first reading we are told that God loves us so much that he sent his Son Jesus to be the expiration for our sins. And the event of feeding of the five thousand as we have in our Gospel passage today, speaks of the generosity of God and his kindness towards us. Telling us that when God gives, he gives abundantly. He gives us more than we need for ourselves so that we can share with those who lack. In fact, we can interpret this miracle as the fruit of sharing with one another, for it is possible that once the disciples began to share the little food they had with those around, others also who had actually brought some food with them started sharing what they have and indeed grace multiplied what they have to the point of having left over. 

Dear friends, God loves us so much, that he is willing and ready to satisfy our unquenchable hunger for physical and spiritual things. How I wish humanity can give up greed, selfishness, hatred, embezzlement of our common resources in order to embrace true love for one another and learn to share our resources with one another for the purpose for which they are meant for, believe me, the world will witness another miracle of multiplication of resources that will be enough for everyone with left over for the future generations. 

But we have failed to embrace this love, we have failed to share this love with one another or give up our ugly attitudes. Therefore, let us embrace Jesus and the love he is offering us. Let us like Jesus have compassion and love for everyone, for that is the very nature of God which we share.

LET US PRAY: Heavenly Father, we are really hungry, in need of your love and satisfaction both physically and spiritually, feed us once again with your heavenly grace and multiple the little bread and fish we share with others and provide for us the basic needs of life. And as we carryout how daily activities this year, give us a generous heart that we may freely share your love with those we encounter. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have lovely day.

Homily For Monday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 3rd January, 2022

 Homily For Monday After the Epiphany of the Lord, 3rd January, 2022

Readings: 1 John 3:22-4:6, Ps.2,  Matt. 4:12-17.23-25

Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Emenike Onyia.

WE MUST LEARN TO DISCERN THE TRUE SPIRIT OF GOD IN A WORLD FULL OF FALSEHOOD AND DECEPTION

In our societies today there are many influential powers that have great effect in our lives coming from various source under the guise of good but some are in fact evil leading us astray. So, there is need for us to examine these false and deceptive spirit. For the Holy Spirit will lead us to learn how to distinguish clearly where and in whom is the Spirit of truth from the spirit of falsehood. Disce

 

As long as we are of God and in Christ, we have nothing to fear. We do not belong any more to this present world, full of sin, hate and greed, corruption, deceit and violence. Thus, we must let ourselves be guided by the Lord against embracing, too readily, any doctrine proposed to us. We must guide ourselves against attaching ourselves without due consideration, to any teacher that may pretend to have a divine inspiration; because, many false teachers are increasing everyday to deceive the people.

Dear friends, we must not let ourselves be deceived by the evil power of this world. For John in our first reading gives us a special sign for distinguishing true doctrine or true teachers from the false ones. For him, any spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ had come in the flesh is of God. Therefore, we must be very wise for there are many false prophets operating under the power of the devil who are deceiving humanity and turning our attention from God.

LET US PRAY: Lord God, we thank you for the gift of Your Holy Spirit, who guides us against the deception of this world. Give us the grace of discernment in order to distinguish between good and false Spirit. We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen. Do have a fruitful week ahead.